Romans 95
Honor One Another
Brian Kocourek, Pastor
Let’s remain standing as we open our bibles to: ROMANS
Now last week we
taught from this verse and our focus was upon the first half of this verse
where Paul says we are to be “kindly affectioned” which
means tenderly affectionionate one toward
another. Now, this week, I would like to
examine the second half of this verse because there are others things he says
here that we should consider in how we treat each member of the body of Christ.
You see, brother Branham said we get what we preach for. For you reap what you sow, and when the Son of Man went forth sowing seed it was the Word of God according to the Gospel of Mark
MARK 4:10 And
when he was alone, they that were about him with the twelve asked of him the
parable. 11 And he said unto them, Unto you it is given to know the mystery of
the kingdom of God: but unto them that are without, all [these] things are done
in parables: 12 That seeing they may see, and not perceive; and hearing they
may hear, and not understand; lest at any time they should be converted, and
[their] sins should be forgiven them. 13 And he said unto them, Know ye not
this parable? and how then will ye know all parables?
14 The sower soweth the word.
So you see the Word is a seed that is sown, and the law of reproduction is that every seed will bring forth after its kind. Therefore you reap what you sow.
That is why the Bible tells us to have friends you must be friendly. You sow friendship and it comes back upon you. You sow a spirit of cooperation and it comes back upon you. And if you sow discord, that will come back upon you as well.
Now, the last part of Romans 12: 10 the Apostle Paul told us to honor one another by preferring the other. Let’s read it again.
ROMANS
Notice, in honor preferring
one another;
Now, let’s top
here and look at what this means for the next few minutes this morning. in honor preferring
one another;
Now, the word Honor that Paul uses here is the Greek word Time’ (pronounced tee-may). Now this word is used throughout The New Testament as the words: Price, Sum, precious, and honor and means the value that has been placed, or the sum, or price of the object, person, or thing has been set and it is precious. In other words it speaks of the value or worth of the person one to the other.
Now, the first
we must understand, is that you can have a false
honor, by valuing something more or less than it is worth. And how can you
honor correctly what you do not know, because to honor is to set a worth or
value, and if you do not know the person, how can you set the value. Therefore,
we are fully dependent upon the Holy Spirit to give us that understanding. The Apostle John said, I JOHN
And the Apostle Paul told us if we be any otherwise minded, God would reveal it to us.
PHILIPPIANS
Now, here we see Paul tell us that there is an example that has been laid out before you and that is the example of a Life that is God oriented. If we are to do what The Apostle Paul commanded us to do, in honoring one another, we must do so correctly, and we must know the value or worth of the other person.
You cannot honor what you do not know, because you can not set a value or worth to those things you are unsure. Therefore in order to fulfill this command of the Apostle Paul we must know the worth or value of one another. And the next thing we must know is where we get that value. Is it my own value or assessment? Is it my own opinion of that person? Or is it the opinion of an Absolute? If we do not have an absolute for our standard we can end up getting the short end of the stick. Like the Algonquin Indians who sold the Island of Manhattan to the Dutch for beads worth about 60 Gilders or about $24.
Pretty expensive
beads, you might say. Had they known that one day the
Then what about
this statement the Apostle Paul is making here. He tells us to honor one another, preferring
one another.
Apparently Paul
knows something about the value of the Elect that many who call themselves
Christians today do not. He is telling us here to honor one another. In other
words he is telling us to place a high value upon one another, making the other
precious in your sight. Now, in order to do that we have to
know the value of the other. It never ceases to amaze me how people will
go out of their way to honor the rich, or the famous, but when it comes to the
very elect of God, they will hardly go out of their way to even say hello.
Like brother
Branham said, about Jesus Christ Himself. He said if you knew the President of
the
BELIEVEST THOU
THIS? 50-0716 E-47 Used
to be, a long time ago, when the neighbor got sick or something, we went over
and cut his corn, cut him some wood if it was wintertime. And today the
neighbor can die, and you don't know it till you read it in the paper. That's
right. No friendship among one another anymore. That's awful. Love... "Because the iniquity shall
abound, the love of many shall wax cold," said Jesus in Matthew's the 24th
chapter. That's true.
RESURRECTION OF LAZARUS
51-0729A E-50 A long time ago
when we used to run out of money, we'd go over to the neighbor and borrow fifty
dollars to hold us over. Why, we didn't have to sign any notes. We trusted one
another. You can't borrow five dollars now without a ten dollar security on top
of it. That's right. No love... The Bible said, "Because the love shall
wax cold the--the love... Because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall
wax cold." That's what the
matter with the world. They're dying for love. We got plenty of teaching,
plenty churches, but we need a love of God. Hallelujah.
Now, the thing
of it is that we must understand is the value we should be placing on each
other. And where do we get this value from? Our own thoughts?
NO! From what value God has placed on the others. And what was that value that
God placed on you Michael? What value did God place on you Derek? And you Ron, and you Steve? Let’s turn to His Word and find
out what God Himself has to say about this value or the Elect..
I CORINTHIANS
Now, if I might
ask, what was the price that God paid for you?
The Price that God paid was the very Life of His Uniquely born Son, who gave His life, and shed His blood for your redemption. And the word redeem means to buy back. So he paid the price, and when you do not honor one another with Godly Love toward one another, you are discrediting the Work of God and the sacrifice of His Son.
QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS
54-0103M 87-176 I remember years ago. You always heard them
talk about the sawdust trails and things in the Tabernacle. That didn't make it
any more, not a bit more. But then it was fresh; God was calling His church.
I've seen them sob and cry and lay on the altar all night long. I've went to their houses, and you could hear them when you come
up, just in their--in their bedchamber, men and women, crying, "O
God..." You'd see them walk through the church, and I'd see the
piano start playing, "Jesus Keep Me Near The
Cross," and the tears flowing down there, you know. [Brother Branham
sniffles--Ed.] Walk into this church, then walk down to another church, and
hear them there, "There's a precious Fountain..." "O God, save
my boy. Save my daughter; she's lost, Lord. Please." 178 You don't find that no more. What's the
matter? The Spirit of God is with-drawn. Jesus said, predicted this, that
the love... because the love of many... the love would fail. "That
because iniquity would abound, the love of many would fail." See?
See, grow cold, go away... The love is dying away. And
what they got into, just a form; beat the piano up-and-down real hard, and
holler "Glory to God. Hallelujah. Praise the Lord." See, like that,
it's just a form. Don't fool yourself (See?), just to fool yourself. See,
doesn't matter until we... I go like this, I'm talk... Now, I'm not
talking about our Tabernacle; I'm talking about what I find around the
I believe the
reason we do not see the proper respect and honor one to another is that we do
not live in this Word like we used to, or should be doing. We do not value one
another because we do not value what God values. QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS 59-0628E 379-87 And
then, what's these people going to do that blasphemes and makes fun of people
under the demonstration of the Holy Ghost? When they make fun of those people
they are blaspheming the Holy Ghost which is absolutely unpardonable. You're
not talking of that man; you're talking to the Spirit that's moving in that
man. We ought to honor one another, and love one another, and exhort one
another, talk good of each other. That's what we should do.
PLANTING.THE.VINE.AND.WHERE.TO.PLANT.IT_ JEFF.IN SUNDAY_
59-0920
E-25 Oh,
go with me to
E-26 What's the matter with the church today,
it's been set into a denomination, that has put denominational creeds and binds
it. No joy, just a sprinkle now and then
of a little revival to hold it. What it needs to be is to come out from
among scoffers and unbelievers, and be planted by the rivers of water. For
there is a fountain filled with Blood, drawn from Immanuel's veins, where
sinners, unbelievers, plunged beneath the flood, lose all their guilty stains.
PSALMS 1:1 ¶ Blessed [is] the man that walketh
not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in
the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the
scornful. 2 But
his delight [is] in the law of the LORD; and in his law doth he meditate day
and night. 3 And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall
not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper. 4 ¶ The ungodly [are] not so: but [are]
like the chaff which the wind driveth away.
Oh, brothers and sisters, come back to the waters of this Words, where you will be washed by the watering of the Word. You can’t be in the presence of the Lord and not feel that refreshing waters of Life.
ACTS 3:19 Repent ye therefore, and
be converted, that your sins may be blotted out, when the times of refreshing
shall come from the presence of the Lord; Now this refreshing speaks
of a cooling and comes from a root word meaning to cool again, to cool off,
recover from the effects of heat, to recover breath, take the air, cool off,
revive, refresh one's self. Just like
when the Lord came to Adam in the cool of the evening, and in the evening His
Presence has come again bringing that same refreshing atmosphere with Him. We
should not be in a Desert, we should be in the cool
and refreshing of His Presence. And if we are all stickers and no fruit it is
because we have left His presence for other things.
223-1
223-3"I know your service." Jesus
said, "He that is greatest of all is servant to all." A wise man
commented on that saying. Here is what he said,
"Only history will prove the truth of that dictum." That man was
right. All the truly great men of history have been servants. They who demanded to be served; they who oppressed; they who sought
to always be at the head, have gone down in shame. Even the very rich
are condemned by God when they have not used their wealth right.
But look into
history and you will find that the truly great were those who served others.
History can never acclaim those for whom much was done, but it will forever
praise those who did much for others. Now let us apply that to ourselves. Even
as the Son of Man came not to be ministered unto, but to minister, so we are to
follow that example. See Him as He bows Himself over the feet of the apostles
and washes their tired and dirty feet. He said, "You don't know now what I
am doing, but you will know hereafter. But what you see me doing, you ought
also to do." He became a servant in order that God could elevate Him to
the highest heights. And one day in the judgment of the saints we are going to
hear Him say, " Well done, good and faithful
SERVANT, enter thou into the joy of the Lord." It is hard to be always a
servant. But those who spend and are spent for others will one day be seated
with Him in His throne. It will be worth it all, then. "Let us labor for
the Master, from the dawn till setting sun, Let us
talk of all His wondrous love and care, And when all of life is over and our
work on earth is done, And the roll is called up yonder I'll be there."
224-1 "I know your faith." Now he
does not say here as He did to the church in Pergamos,
"you hold MY faith". He is not talking about His faith now, but He is
commending them for their faithfulness. And as He does He also mentions their
'patience.' Now faithfulness and patience go together. In fact patience is the
outcome of faithfulness, for it says in James 1:3, "The trying of your faith worketh patience." There is absolutely no other way in which to
gain patience. It has to come by the trial of our faith. Romans
5:3, "Tribulation
worketh patience." How highly God regards this outworking of our
patience is seen in James 1:4, "But let patience have her perfect
work, that ye may be perfect and entire lacking nothing." God's will for us is Perfection. And that
perfection is patience--waiting on God and waiting for God. This is the process
of character development. How highly God has commended these saints of the Dark
Ages. Patient as lambs led to the slaughter, lovingly, faithfully they served
God. That is all they wanted out of life, just service to their Lord. How great
was to be their reward.
Now, in closing I would like to say this. The Apostle Paul said we ought to be honoring one another. That means we ought to be placing one another as a higher value in our life than anything else. And if we are not doing that it is because we are backslid from the presence of God and do not place God’s Word above our own.
I told my wife and family, and Sister Judy and Jessica the other day, I just do not have any desire for things at Christmas like the world seems to be so set on. What I would like more than anything is to just be with friends and brothers and sisters in the Lord and to sit and eat and fellowship and just partake of their company, and their presence. That means more to me than all the gifts money could buy. I don’t want things, I just want your love and friendship and some time with you to just be with you and relax in the presence of the Lord, and not worry what anyone might think. I believe the elect of God must come to the place where the presence of the brethren means more to them than any material possession. I believe the Elect will come to the place where to have the opportunity to sit and talk the Word with one another is the most cherished thing you desire in your hearts. More precious than silver or gold.
PSALMS 1:1¶ Blessed [is] the man that walketh
not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in
the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the
scornful. 2 But his delight [is] in the
law of the LORD; and in his law doth he meditate day and night. 3 And he shall be like a tree planted by the
rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his
season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper.
PSALMS 19:7 ¶ The law of the LORD [is] perfect, converting the
soul: the testimony of the LORD [is] sure, making wise the simple. 8 The
statutes of the LORD [are] right, rejoicing the heart: the commandment of the
LORD [is] pure, enlightening the eyes. 9 The fear of the LORD [is] clean,
enduring for ever: the judgments of the LORD [are] true [and] righteous
altogether. 10 More to be desired [are
they] than gold, yea, than much fine gold: sweeter also than honey and the
honeycomb.
MALACHI 3:16 Then they that
feared the LORD spake often
one to another: and the LORD hearkened, and heard [it], and a book of
remembrance was written before him for them that feared the LORD, and that
thought upon his name. 17 And they shall be mine, saith
the LORD of hosts, in that day when I make up my jewels; and I will spare them,
as a man spareth his own son that serveth
him. 18 Then shall ye return, and discern between the righteous and the wicked,
between him that serveth God and him that serveth him not.
PSALMS 119:1 ¶ ALEPH. Blessed [are] the undefiled in the
way, who walk in the
law of the LORD. 2
Blessed [are] they that keep his
testimonies, [and that] seek him with the whole heart. 3 They also do no
iniquity: they walk in his ways. 4 ¶ Thou hast commanded
[us] to keep thy precepts
diligently. 5 O that my ways were directed to keep thy statutes! 6 Then shall I not be ashamed, when I have respect
unto all thy commandments. 7 ¶ I
will praise thee with uprightness of heart, when I shall have learned thy righteous judgments. 8 I will keep
thy statutes: O forsake
me not utterly. 9 ¶ BETH. Wherewithal shall a young
man cleanse his way? by taking heed [thereto] according to thy word. 10 ¶ With my whole heart have I sought thee: O let me not wander
from thy commandments. 11 ¶ Thy word have I
hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee. 12 ¶
Blessed [art] thou, O LORD: teach me thy statutes. 13¶
With my lips have I declared all the judgments of thy mouth. 14 I have rejoiced in the way of thy testimonies, as [much as]
in all riches. 15 I will meditate in thy
precepts, and have respect unto thy
ways. 16 I will delight myself in thy
statutes: I will not forget thy word.
17 ¶ GIMEL. Deal bountifully with thy servant, [that]
I may live, and keep thy word. 18 ¶ Open thou mine
eyes, that I may behold wondrous things out of thy law. 19 ¶ I [am] a stranger in the earth: hide not thy commandments from me. 20 ¶ My soul breaketh
for the longing [that it hath] unto thy
judgments at all times. 21 ¶ Thou hast rebuked the proud [that are]
cursed, which do err from thy
commandments. 22 ¶
Remove from me reproach and contempt; for I have kept thy testimonies. 23¶ Princes also did sit [and] speak against
me: [but] thy servant did meditate in thy
statutes. 24 ¶ Thy testimonies also [are] my delight [and] my counsellors.
25 ¶ DALETH. My soul cleaveth
unto the dust: quicken thou me according
to thy word. 26 ¶ I have declared my ways, and thou heardest
me: teach me thy statutes. 27 Make me to
understand the way of thy precepts:
so shall I talk of thy wondrous works.
28 ¶ My soul melteth for
heaviness: strengthen thou me according unto thy word. 29 Remove from me the way of lying: and grant me thy law graciously. 30 ¶ I have chosen the way of truth: thy judgments have I laid [before me].
31 I have stuck unto thy testimonies: O LORD, put me not to
shame. 32 I will run the way of thy commandments, when thou shalt enlarge my heart. 33 ¶HE. Teach
me, O LORD, the way of thy statutes;
and I shall keep it [unto] the end. 34 Give me understanding, and I shall keep thy law; yea, I shall observe it with [my] whole heart. 35 ¶ Make me to go in
the path of thy commandments; for
therein do I delight. 36 Incline my heart unto thy testimonies, and not to covetousness. 37 ¶ Turn away mine eyes from beholding
vanity; [and] quicken thou me in thy way.
38 ¶ Stablish thy word unto thy servant, who [is
devoted] to thy fear. 39 ¶
Turn away my reproach which I fear: for thy judgments [are] good. 40 ¶ Behold, I have longed after thy precepts: quicken me in thy righteousness. 41 ¶ VAU. Let thy
mercies come also unto me, O LORD, [even] thy salvation, according to thy word. 42
So shall I have wherewith to answer him that reproacheth
me: for I trust in thy word.
43 ¶ And take not the
word of truth utterly out of my mouth; for I have hoped in thy judgments. 44 So shall I keep thy law continually for
ever and ever. 45 ¶
And I will walk at liberty: for I seek thy precepts. 46 I will speak of thy testimonies also before
kings, and will not be ashamed. 47 And
I will delight myself in thy commandments, which I have loved. 48 My hands also will I lift up unto thy
commandments, which I have loved; and I will meditate in thy statutes. 49 ¶ ZAIN. Remember the word unto thy
servant, upon which thou hast caused me to hope. 50 ¶ This [is] my comfort in my affliction:
for thy word hath quickened me. 51 ¶ The proud have had
me greatly in derision: [yet] have I not declined from thy law. 52 ¶ I remembered thy judgments of old, O
LORD; and have comforted myself. 53 ¶ Horror hath taken
hold upon me because of the wicked that forsake thy law. 54 ¶ Thy statutes have been my songs in the
house of my pilgrimage. 55 ¶ I have remembered
thy name, O LORD, in the night, and have kept thy law. 56 This I had, because I kept thy precepts.
57 ¶ CHETH. [Thou art] my portion, O LORD:
I have said that I would keep thy words. 58
¶ I intreated thy favour with [my]
whole heart: be merciful unto me according to thy word. 59 ¶ I thought on my ways, and turned my
feet unto thy testimonies. 60 I made
haste, and delayed not to keep thy commandments. 61 ¶ The bands of the wicked have robbed
me: [but] I have not forgotten thy law. 62
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